Kym
ABOUT
Master Certified Relationship Coach
When you’ve hit rock bottom and have lost hope, I’m here to show you that you really CAN have what you want.
Just like you, when I hit 40, I started asking myself, “Is this the life I want for the NEXT 40 years?”
The question begged me to evaluate the life I had created for myself so far.
Is this relationship what I want?
Is it the best thing for the me that I’m becoming?
Am I settling, just to keep the peace?
The answer to those questions was a resounding NO, this wasn’t what I wanted and YES, I was settling. I chose my husband when I was 19. At 40 I had become an entirely different person.
I’ve seen some women ask these questions. Some made decisions that resulted in minor adjustments to stay in their relationships, while others tore it all down and started over.
I am one who tore it all down and started over.
I won’t lie, it wasn’t easy and I didn’t have the coaching skills and tools that I have now to make the process easier.
Becoming a Life Coach was what I needed to survive myself.
I knew I needed change to keep myself alive. I had lost hope. And I realized that I didn’t really even KNOW myself….much less what my deepest desires were.
What I didn’t know for a long time was that I deserved to feel hope and love. I realized that I was working hard not to disappoint everyone else, but the one I was disappointing the most was me.
So I chose me. I became a different person and I like her a LOT!
It’s okay to make that choice. Even though our culture tells us we should put everyone else’s needs above our own, we can’t give what we don’t have. Just like the oxygen masks in an airplane, we nourish ourselves first so that we have the strength and stamina to be there for others.
In her book “Cutting Loose” Ashton Applewhite writes about Why Women Who Leave Their Marriages Do So Well. One woman states, “The limbo was the worst, but when I finally decided it was over, I felt very powerful. It was scary as fucking hell, but there was tremendous clarity, which was a relief after three years of wondering.”
Together we can work through your tangled thoughts and find the clarity you want. You’ll move forward knowing yourself and all the reasons for the choices you made.
Give yourself the permission
You deserve it
To start, click below to schedule a complimentary 20 minute mini-session with me today and let’s get you on your way to the life you deserve.
My passion is to help other women discover what I did… that being brave enough to exit or adjust a faltering relationship is the best thing we can do for ourselves.
"Kym is an intuitive, thoughtful and deeply passionate coach. Her uplifting, positive and fun personality make her easy to open up to and wonderful to work with. She has not only been an amazing coach but also a caring mentor. Her strategies and insights have inspired and motivated me to move forward with a new-found confidence in myself. I am very grateful to have worked with her."
- Debbie
Kym Hibbard, RN, BSN
Master Certified Coach
